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Life Between Two Worlds

I’ve mentioned here on my blog that I have been working off and on over the past few months on my family photos. I had 200 or so slides converted to digital at Costco and I just finished editing those and uploading all of them plus some scanned paper photos onto flickr. I sent out an email to my siblings and parents with a link to the pictures, and that first night emails and phone calls were flying around between us. “who was that in the one…” , “I remember that trip, but ….”, and “did you see the look on Grandpa’s face in the one…”

At the end of these conversations my Dad sent me an email, “just mailed you the other box of slides and pictures we found; it weighed 10lb, 11oz.” WOW! So, I guess I’ll be busy for a while longer. I don’t mind though. See, I’m not just looking at the photos, I’m editing, restoring, enhancing color, deciding what story they tell, and which details need to stay in each photo. By the time they are on Flickr and everyone else is seeing them, I have them memorized, have studied the faces and the places, and have invited the memories in, and in the process, the pictures change me.

Since starting this draft, I have received the box of photos and slides, have acquired a scanner from my father-in-law, and have scanned and edited 30 or so more pictures. Many of these slides were my Grandparents’ on my mother’s side, and many I have never seen before. I have not had any photos of myself before about age 2, and in this treasure trove of pictures I found this:
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I know it’s me, because the slide has an imprint dated August 1962. And that is my Grandma Jo holding me. So now I know what I looked like when I was a fairly new baby. Sometime that summer of 1962.

This one was from that fall or winter, and I’ve never seen it. And when I first held it up to the light bulb the day the box arrived, I almost cried. I’ve wished so many times for a picture of myself as a baby with my mother. This gem was like a gift handed to me when I least expected it.
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Sometimes I wish there was a recording device to go with every photo, so I could hear our voices, and hear the stories behind the pictures. One thing that I know, even without a recording, or hearing the tales, is that we were very happy children. We are smiling and laughing, and playing, throughout the years of photos, and I’m very very thankful that our Mom and Dad provided us a home where we knew we were loved and we were allowed to be children, and I’m thankful we have these photos as a reminder.

Jack Mcleod

Our friends Brett and Lindsay asked me to take Jack’s 6 month baby pictures.  We had a perfect fall day in Bellingham yesterday and it went great.  Jack is a total flirt and loves the camera.  Here’s a couple of my favorite shots:

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Nora Grace, 7 weeks old

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Last night my dad wrote this as as note on Facebook.  I was so moved by it and have read it so many times already, I thought I’d share it here. I didn’t ask permission, so hopefully I won’t get grounded or sent to my room. (Although that sounds kind of nice, actually.)

Mom, on her way out to check on Dad in the shop (August '08)

Mom, on her way out to check on Dad in the shop (August '08)

“I went out to the shop this evening to look at my newly purchased 100,000 btu heater. I plugged it in and immediately was met with air warmed by the fire within. I began to walk from end of the shop to the other, literally going in circles and thinking of all the good times I have had working on various projects. And of the birthday parties and dinners held within the walls of “My Shop”. I especially remember celebrating my 70th birthday with family and friends, all seated around tables set up within for the occasion. Remembering Cindy teaching all the women how to play “texas holdem”. Remembering the laughter and smiles.

And as the “air was warmed by the fire within”, so my whole being began to warm as my favorite memory began to surface. …… and made a knot in my throat that would not go away. … I used to go to the shop and start my project around 8:00 am and no sooner get started when Donna (My Shop Mate) would arrive carrying two cups of coffee and cookies or donuts.” I am just getting started”!, I would say….. Yes but it is time for a break! she would respond.
So we would pull a couple of chairs into the sunlight of an open doorway and take our break, sharing the coffee and goodies she had brought. It was a daily ritual that I would tease her about. Showing up just after I would get started. But it was a ritual that I came to depend on.

And then I remembered being in the shop just after her heart surgery and feeling so overwhelmed as I realized there would most likely be no more unannounced “coffee breaks”. I used to have her come out and inspect when I completed a project, just so I could revel in her oooh’s and aah’s. But I became painfully aware that if I could not carry it to the house, I would miss out on that aspect as well.
I am remembering that I felt “it just might not be worth the effort” to continue some of my off the wall projects if she could not be an active participant.

But this evening I have been warmed both from within and without. I am anxious to be in the shop and to pursue whatever crosses my mind or comes in the door. I shall carry what I can into the house for Shop Mate approval. And when the need arrives, I will drive my Shop Mate into the shop for her oooh’s and aah’s. We will soon take a drive from the house into the shop so that she can see the 100,000 btu heater in action and we will share it’s warmth as we sip a cup of coffee and nibble on some goodies.

And so, dear face book friends, If you show up here and I am in the shop, take time to make some coffee and come out and announce your presence “Hey Ron, time for a break”!!”

Dad, hard at work in the shop

Dad, hard at work in the shop

So many things to do in the shop

So many things to do in the shop

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…No…It was 1953 and….
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…No, actually, it was just this morning at 9:00 and it looked like this:

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Two Hours

Two Hours

One Week

One Week

Two Weeks

Two Weeks

Three Weeks

Three Weeks

Four Weeks

Four Weeks

Five Weeks

Five Weeks

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